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Religion…

Posted by nadinesmit on December 11, 2007

Oieee,

 I have had the opportunity to visit Brazil for 5 weeks with the exchange student that lived in our house for 5 months… It´s a great chance to experience another culture and to learn some new things…

One of the things I´ve been thinking about is their religion… Leticia, the exchange student, is Catholic. So are her parents, brother, friends and the rest of her family. On Sunday, I went to church with them to experience how it is and so on. In the front of the church there was a `statue´of Jesus hanging on the cross and in the Christmas ceremony afterwards, there was a little show with a Maria, Joseph and a little baby boy symbolizing Jesus…

In every shop or store we go into, somewhere against the wall there is a little statue hanging on the wall with a crucified Jesus. There is also a huge statue of Jesus in the town. In the Catholic religion, they believe in saints and that they have to confess all their sins to the priest atleast twice a year. A lot of Brazilians wear little necklaces with a picture of Jesus and/or one of the saints and they have art like `the last supper´ or angels or statues everywhere… 

Although protestant is also popular in Brazil, according to Leticia, about 78% of Brazil´s population is Catholic… I would like to hear some thoughts on this religion to be able to learn more about it, about how it differs from being protestant and to be able to understand their religion better…

 Here’s some info I found on a website…

Distinctive beliefs and practices (i.e., Roman Catholicism)

Catholicism Beliefs

Most of the Roman Catholic Churches share certain essential distinctive beliefs and practices. The Anglicans differ among themselves on these matters:Direct and continuous organisational descent from the original church founded by Jesus
Possession of the “threefold ordained ministry” of Bishops, Priests and Deacons.
All ministers are ordained by, and subject to, Bishops, who pass down sacramental authority by the “laying-on of hands”, having themselves been ordained in a direct line of succession from the Apostles.
Their belief that the Church, not any one book, is the vessel and deposit of the fullness of the teachings of Jesus and the Apostles. This teaching is preserved in both written scripture and in written and oral church tradition. Neither is independent of the other.
A belief in the necessity of sacraments (although not necessarily seven in number).
The use of images, candles, vestments and music in worship.
The making of the Sign of the Cross in a variety of contexts.
Belief that the bread and wine of the Eucharist really are Jesus’s body, blood, soul, and divinity — not just “symbols”.
Veneration of Mary, the mother of Jesus as the Blessed Virgin Mary or Theotokos, and veneration of the saints.
A distinction among worship (latria) for God, and veneration (dulia) for saints, with the term hyperdulia used for a special veneration accorded to the Virgin Mary among Roman Catholics. This “hyperdulia” is not universal to all Catholics.
The usefulness of prayer on behalf of the dead.
Salvation through faith lived out through good works, rather than by faith alone.
 

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Masks 2…

Posted by nadinesmit on November 9, 2007

Hello, 

A fellow student of mine committed suicide last night. I can honestly say that no one expected him to do so, but then again, can you ever expect something so sudden… This stirred in me a follow up to Masks. I’ve been meaning to write it for some time now, just never felt like it… 

He was a gr.10 pupil at our school and I knew him through some of my friends. He was the type of person to always greet you with a friendly smile on his face. Pleasant to be around and always trying to cheer you up if there was only the slightest sigh of you feeling down. He really seemed to be happy and to enjoy life, even with all the trauma in his life… 

I would never be able to imagine how he felt. For me, suicide is shocking and not worth it, and definitely not an answer. But for him, it might have been completely different. He came out of a house where his father and his brother both committed suicide. That probably took away the shocking part associated with suicide for him… 

He wore a mask, and had everyone believe that all was well and that his life was fine, great actually. Now the people who knew him a lot better were also shocked. Someone who spoke to him earlier that day says he was fine at that time and didn’t show any sigh of feeling depressed enough to take his own life. The people who knew him well were also shocked, people who knew about the things in his life. He wore a mask to cover his true feelings… 

While a mask could work in keeping yourself from getting hurt and such, it keeps your from getting help. It keeps you from the joy of true friendships, the joy of letting someone love you for the true you, the joy of trusting people, the joy of life… 

There is a negative side to wearing masks, and it brings a lot of pain. Keeping people from knowing the real you can result in leaving your life empty and your friendships and relationships unfulfilling and shakey. They don’t seem too be able to do you harm, they only seem to be able to help your heart staying whole.. Well, all in life isn’t always as it seems, is it?   

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The man in the glass…

Posted by nadinesmit on October 16, 2007

Hey…

I got this poem from a very special friend of mine… Being a referee and aspiring to be a national and international one, there is quite a lot of meaning he and all others, for that matter, can attribute to this poem. We all know that in life (and in a rugbymatch) one can never satisfy or impress every person around you…

Somewhere, someone is always going to disagree and that is why it’s so important that you don’t live life according to what others expect or think of you, but according to what you expect and think of yourself…

So here it is…

When you walk down the road on the pathway of life
And the world makes you king for a day
Just go to the mirror and look at yourself
And see what the man has to say

For it isn’t your father or mother or wife
Whose judgemant upon you must pass
The fellow whose verdict counts most in your life
Is the one staring back from the glass

Some people may think you’re a straight-shootin’ chum
And call you a wonderful guy
But the man in the glass says you’re only a bum
If you can’t look him straight in the eye

He’s the fellow to please, never mind the rest
For he’s with you clear up to the end
And you’ve past your most dangerous difficult test
If the man in the glass is your friend

You may fool the whole world down the pathway of life
And get pats on your back as you pass
But your final reward will be heartache and tears
IF YOU CHEATED THE MAN IN THE GLASS

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Masks…

Posted by nadinesmit on October 14, 2007

Ola…

In life it is true that people wear masks… They wear them to protect themselves against pain or to protect themselves from getting too attached to people. From trusting the wrong people or trusting people too much or with the wrong info…

Some people even wear masks to keep themselves from caring or from falling in love, to keep themselves from hurting others or getting hurt again, some people wear them to enable themselves to leave easily, to forget easily…

Each of us have our own masks and we have our own reasons for wearing them. People who get to know you, start to see through those masks and some even see through them right from the start, from the first moment they meet you, the chances are slim, but they do exist…

And the masks don’t always help as much as you would like them to. In life people will always get close to you, it can’t be help. We are social creatures and we need interaction and companionship. Who you let close to you is up to you, and if we sometimes make the wrong decisions and choose the wrong people, we end up getting hurt…

This is a quote from A Cinderella Story… “Don’t let the fear of striking out; keep you from playing the game!” The fear of getting hurt shouldn’t cause you to stop trying all together… But, it is justifiable to be careful and to take your time. Take all the time in the world, all the time you need, because the people who are worth your while will still be right there waiting for you until you are ready… And from experience I can tell you that those are the people worth having in your life…

Another observation is that people always push the people away that are the closest to them. I think it’s because they are the nearest and they are the ones who can take it. They are the ones who can survive your pushing and shoving because no matter how hard you push, they will always be there for you!!! Even if you might not want them there… One day you will…

There is nothing wrong with wearing a masks to guard you heart, just don’t blame people for being able to see through those masks, they just care enough to try. And don’t be too afraid to commit to someone, whether in friendship or in a relationship… It might just be the most wonderful decision in your life, and make you the happiest person ever…

Wear your masks, we all have them, I have quite a few… Just not to the extent that they cause you any unhappiness, cause then it’s not worth it!!!

To all my friends out there, I love you soooooo much and I want to thank you for letting me see through your masks, I will treasure the gesture for always and forever. And thank you for being able to see through mine, and being the ones I can trust to do so…

This post isn’t directed to just one person in general, but to quite few and it generated out of quite a lot of my experiences and observations… I only put them all together in this post…

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Friendships…

Posted by nadinesmit on October 12, 2007

In life we come to know that not all friendships are meant to last, and not all of them do. Some stay preserved through time and some stand the test of distance, even the lack of contact can be bridged…

But, a lot of friendships die, even if they can handle any or all of the above. Why is that? Why is it that we trust people and grow to love them, only to lose them after a while…

Cobus, a Q for you. Do you believe that certain people cross our paths because their influence for that period of time is an experience that has an effect on us and ultimately helps us grow in who we are? That certain friendships are made only to last until you outgrow them or their purpose?

I guess you know what I’m refering too, I resently lost a friend and to my regret it didn’t end on the best or nicest note… But I learned a lot out of the friendship and I will never forget it…

I’m just wondering a lot these days about this subject…

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Support…

Posted by nadinesmit on September 5, 2007

Something I wondered about today, why is it that you could have all the support in the world from friends and family, but when people close to you express complete doubt or disagreement in a untactful way, you are completely thrown of your stride and it all just seems that much more harder…

Yes, you shouldn’t let that effect me that much but when it’s someone who’s support you really value, then it hurts, a lot… How can you make them realise how much they are hurting you?? 

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Teenage relationships…

Posted by nadinesmit on September 5, 2007

Hey…

A while ago me and a friend of mine discussed this particular issue.. Why do teenagers want and have relationships - more specific - romantic relationships??

 Is it because they want to feel wanted, is it because they want to prove something? Some teenagers go so far it’s almost as if they feel justified by a boyfriends or girlfriend??

 Maybe they have them just to have someone to kiss or to make out with, someone they can spend their time on rather that doing  nothing and being bored…

Yes, those few relationships exist that last and really mean something, but is it really worth it? When I was in std.5 a girl told us about her experiences and how everytime you have a relationship, you give a part of yourself away, like the way you might give away a block off a slab chocolate… What do you do when you have little or nothing left when that perfect person comes along? The reason I say ‘they’ all the time, is because I exclude myself, I have never had a romantic relationship in all my life, although I currently have an amazing friend who fills the role of a boyfriend in my life…

Yes, that might sound weird but when you think about it there is only so much that you get out of a romantic relationship, especially those small meaningless ones that most teenagers have in school… all they do is break your heart and leave you perhaps empty and wanting more, in the end giving away more, wasting more…

It’s almost as if teenagers are trying to full a void in their lives and according to the media and friends and other sources, the best way to full the void is to have a romantic relationship with someone that momentarily makes your heart beat a little faster?!

They aren’t all bad I suppose but that depends on how you handle them… Sorry to say, but all I have seen caused by them is dissapointment and hurt, damn that sounds so pessimistic…! I’m a optimistic person at heart, but not a dreamer, sometimes you have to be realistic about some things, it isn’t all fairy tales and happy endings…

Some argue that these relationships train you for one day when you will have a truely meaningfull relationship and that so, these relationships as teenagers are a necessity… I don’t agree, ’cause what do they teach you?

Anyway… If you choose not to have a relationship now, there is nothing wrong with you, you might just be a little more mature that your mates…

Another thought…

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Thought…

Posted by nadinesmit on September 4, 2007

Hey…

Atlast a moment to myself, although I could have made time to blog, I was too exhausted…

Neway, something I’ve been thinking about, why is it that people compare?? Why is it that as soon as you are placed in a position of power or one that might be the envy of someone else, people tend to start “hating” you. Not hate as in the true sense of the word, but they start being mean, they start gossiping behind your back and they start making your life as hard as they possible can??? Luckily this hasn’t happened to me yet, but what if it does…

At our school te new LRC (learner representative counsel) was chosen last week. I have had the privilege of being chosen. So did a whole lot of my friends, but a whole lot of my friends also weren’t chosen. Now, some of them have experienced the situations that I mentioned above. And they told me, not to gossip, but to get it of their chests…

They say that now is the time that you will truely discover your true friends, ’cause they are the ones who will be sticking with you till the end, through everything…

A thought that I would just like to share, one that is also what I said to every single person who came to talk to me about how they felt about it all. God has long decided where you will be today, He is the one who decided who will receive the honour to be chosen, and who would not. He has a plan with all of our lives and if it entails us not allways getting what we want, then so be it… He knows best after all…

I say this as a word of hope to all who feel down sometimes… Rely on God, He will carry through whatever happens in your life, as long as you have faith… And if you get dissapointed, remember that most things in life are planned and meant to be, He has a plan with everything…

 Till next time…  

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Thanx…

Posted by nadinesmit on August 19, 2007

I just wanna thank everyone for visiting my blog and commenting on my blog. I want to apologize for there being no new posts. Things are going to be silent until after the 25th of August. That’s when we finish with our schools musical. Things have been hectic… After that I promise to post atleast every second day…

Thanx again… 

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Uitdunning van Diere - Natuurbewaring…?

Posted by nadinesmit on August 12, 2007

Natuurbewaring is ‘n baie belangrike kwessie reg oor die wêreld. Mense spandeer baie geld aan die bewaring van diere, plante, natuurlike hulpbronne en ons aarde, maar ook daaraan om mense daarvan bewus te maak. Bewaring is ‘n ernstige saak en moet met groot voorsorg benader word.

In die verlede het die mens nie besef watter skade hul aanrig nie. Die jag van diere as voedsel en die doodmaak van diere wat as ‘n bedreiging gesien is, het hand uitgeruk en tot die gevolgtrekking gelei dat menigte diere vandag uitgesterf of bedreig is. Wildstelery en stropery deur gewetenlose jagters het net so ‘n ernstige effek tot gevolg gehad.

Vandag bestaan daar Wette teen en vir verskeie handelinge wat plante en diere raak. Bedreigde plant- en dierspesies word deur die wetgewing beskerm. Geen inheemse wilde diere, insluitende voëls, mag sonder ‘n permit in gevangenisskap of as troeteldiere aangehou word nie. Jy het ‘n jaglisensie nodig om wilde diere te jag en ‘n visvanglisensie om vis te vang. Stropers wat lewendige organismes doodmaak of steel, word gevonnis. Die straf vir die stroop van renosters vir hul horings of olifante vir hul tande kan tot soveel as R100 000 wees of vyf jaar tronkstraf.

Ekosisteme is in wese sikliese, gebalanseerde en selfonderhoudende stelsels. Indien ‘n bepaalde kommoditeit verwyder word, verkeer die stelsel nie meer in ewewig nie, maar stuur dit op biologiese gevaar af. Dit maak nie saak watter deel van die ekosisteem vernietig word nie, of dit ‘n skakel in die voedselketting is of ‘n stof wat deel uitmaak van ‘n natuurlike siklus, die uitwerking van dié verlies kan ewe ernstig wees. Ons moet ons diverse verskeidenheid plante- en dierelewe beskerm. Die enigste manier om ‘n stabiele en volhoubare omgewing te verkry is deur ‘n effektiewe program vir die bestuur en bewaring van die omgewing te implementeer. Die doelwit word deur die Wet op Nasionale Omgewingsbestuur: Biodiversiteit, Wet 10 van 2004 (WNOB) onder skraag.

Die doelstellings van dié wet is:
• om voorsiening te maak vir die bestuur en bewaring van Suid-Afrika se biodiversiteit binne die raamwerk van die Wet op Nasionale Omgewingsbestuur 1998 (Wet 107 van 199 8)
• die beskerming van spesies en ekosisteme wat nasionale beskerming regverdig
• die volhoubare benutting van inheemse biologiese hulpbronne
• die regverdige en billike verdeling onder belanghebbers van voordele wat vanweë bio-prospektering met inheemse biologiese bronne gerealiseer word
• om voorsiening te maak vir koöperatiewe bestuur, beheer en bewaring van biodiversiteit
• om voorsiening te maak vir ‘n Suid-Afrikaanse Nasionale Biodiversiteit Instituut wat bystand moet verleen om die doelstellings van die wet te verwesenlik.

Soms groei ‘n bevolking met ‘n hoë reproduktiewe potensiaal so dramaties gedurende die eksponensiële groei-fase dat dit die dravermoë van die ekosisteem oorskry. Die omgewing kan die bevolking nie langer onderhou nie en omgewingsweerstand tree in. Die resultaat hiervan is dat die toename in die bevolking vinnig tot ‘n einde kom, en dat die kenmerkende “ineenstorting” plaasvind. Die verskynsel staan bekend as die “oplewing-ineenstorting”-sindroom (boom-and-bust). Die bevolking toon weer ‘n oplewing, maar volg weer dieselfde patroon, hierdie keer teen ‘n verlaagde dravermoë.

In die natuur is daar ‘n baie delikate balans tussen elke aspek daarvan. Die omgewing, habitat en al die organismes wat daarin voortbestaan werk ten nouste saam. In ‘n voedselketting is diere afhanklik van mekaar vir voedsel. Plante maak die basis van enige voedselketting uit, dus is hulle bekend as die produsente, daarna staan alle herbivore en diere wat van plante af lewe bekend as primêre verbruikers. So gaan die ketting aan met sekondêre en tersiêre verbruikers. Sou een bevolking in die voedselketting vermeerder sou die verbruikers wat van hulle afhanklik is, bevoordeel word tot op ‘n punt en ook vermeerder want hul voedselbron is groter. Die vermeerdering van daardie bevolking het ongelukkig nie ‘n positiewe effek op die bevolking wat as hul voedsel dien nie. Die bevolking is skielik groter en verbruik dus meer voedsel en hulpbronne. Soveel so dat die balans versteur word want daardie voedselgroep is nie groot genoeg om te kan voorsien aan die skielike vermeerdering nie.

Dit kan vergelyk word met vraag en aanbod. Die bevolking vermeerder en dus is die vraag groter, maar die voedselgroep is nie in staan om die aanbod te vermeerder nie, en kan dus uitgeput word. Sodra ‘n voedselgroep opgebruik of uitgeput word, word die ander verbruikers wat ook van die voedselgroep afhanklik was, benadeel want hul is ‘n bron van voedsel kwyt. Die bevolking wat aan die begin die probleem veroorsaak het, word ook benadeel want hulle is ook ‘n voedselbron kwyt. Dit kan weer in uiterste gevalle die uitsterwing of bedreiging van ‘n spesie tot gevolg hê. Op die ou einde het die vermeerdering van een bevolking ‘n effek gehad wat soos ‘n golf weer ‘n effek gehad het op al die organismes in dieselfde omgewing of habitat.

Om so ‘n situasie te voorkom moet omgewingsbestuur toegepas word. Die getalle van bevolking moet in toom gehou word om te verseker dat ‘n drastiese vermeerdering nie plaasvind nie. Daar is baie verskeie metodes om so ‘n probleem te voorkom. As daar ‘n vermeerdering plaasvind kan van die diere verwyder word en na ‘n omgewing verskuif word waar daar dalk ‘n tekort of baie lae syfer is van die betrokke dier. ‘n Ander opsie is uitdunning. Mense kan getalle in toom hou deur te verseker daar bestaan ‘n balans tussen die geboortesyfer en sterftesyfer van ‘n bevolking. As ‘n bevolking se geboortesyfer verhoog terwyl die sterftesyfer nie toeneem of in balans bly nie, kan uitdunning toegepas word. Uitdunning is, om dit baie kras te stel, die doodmaak van ‘n groep diere om getalle te verminder. Dit kan nie vergelyk word met stropery en word nie alleenlik as die enigste opsie gesien nie. Uitdunning word meeste van die tyd toegepas wanneer alle ander opsies oorweeg is en die bestes onsuksesvol toegepas is.

“Mnr. Marthinus van Schalkwyk, minister van omgewingsake en toerisme, behoort geprys te word omdat hy bewaringsbestuur as ‘n wetenskaplike aktiwiteit beskou. Só het prof. Rudi van Aarde, hoogleraar in dierkunde aan die universiteit van Pretoria, gesê in reaksie op die nuwe voorgestelde norme en standaarde vir olifantbestuur in Suid-Afrika, wat Van Schalkwyk gister bekendgestel het. Van Aarde, wat ook ‘n leerstoel in bewaringsekologie aan die universiteit beklee, het gesê olifante moet binne ‘n breë konteks bestuur word omdat hulle tussen drade is. Dit gaan nog veel verder, omdat watergate, deurgange en hul beweging in die toekoms ook bestuur gaan word. Dit is dus ‘n “holistiese bestuursplan”, waarin die uitdunning van olifante net een van die opsies is”, skryf Elise Tempelhoff in ‘n berig op 28 Februarie 2007.

Van Aarde het gesê: “Met hierdie plan sal die foute van die verlede ook reggestel word. Die dae van net olifante uitroei is verby, maar in die uiterste gevalle sal dit móét kom.” Elsie skryf verder: “Dr. Rob Little, waarnemende hoofbeampte van die bewaringsgroep WWF, het gesê dié organisasie besef dat plaaslike gebiede waar olifante voorkom oorbevolk is, en dat dit vir die meeste Suider-Afrikaanse state ‘n besondere uitdaging gaan wees om die getalle te bestuur. Van Schalkwyk het voorgestel uitdunning is met die bestuur van water, geslote gebiede, die skep van deurgange, hervestiging en die toediening van voorbehoedmiddels net een van die opsies in die nuwe bestuurplan.” Little het gesê: “Die WWF is nie voorstaanders van uitdunning as die enigste bestuursmoontlikheid nie. Ons meen olifante moet alleen as ‘n laaste uitweg uitgedun word nadat alle ander moontlikhede uitgeskakel is.”

Hierdie berig is slegs ‘n voorbeeld van waar uitdunning een van talle opsies is om getalle van diere te beheer. Olifante, nes enige ander bevolkingsgroep, se getalle kan hand uitruk, en daarom word uitdunning as ‘n opsie voorgestel. Die mens hanteer duidelik die besluit om uitdunning toe te pas as ‘n baie ernstige saak en baie navorsing word eers vooraf gedoen om te bepaal watter opsies die beste sal werk en watter nie suksesvolle resultate sal kan oplewer nie. Om die bevolkings van bepaalde spesies te bestuur is geen maklike taak nie. Aan die een kant wil ons oorbenutting verhoed, waar teveel individue verwyder word. Maar ons wil ook onderbenutting verhoed, waar heelwat minder individue verwyder word as wat die dravermoë regverdig. Dit is selfs hier baie moeilik om te besluit waar die ideale tussenvlak van ontginning tussen hierdie twee uiterste situasies lê.

Ongelukkig sukkel die wêreld vandag met oorbevolking. Die aarde kan net soveel lewe huisves en daarmee word nie geïnsinueer dat die mens diere se getalle moet verminder sodat daar meer ‘spasie’ vir ons bedrywighede is nie. Daar word slegs bedoel dat natuurlike hulpbronne so bestuur moet word ten einde alle partye te bevoordeel. Ons moet omsien na die Aarde. Die uitdunning van diere is natuurbewaring, maar dit is nie die enigste uitweg nie. Ander opsies moet ook in konsiderasie geneem word. Uitdunning moet ook verkieslik as ‘n laaste uitweg gekies en toegepas word, omdat dit nie altyd die beste of mees aangenaamste of effektiefste opsie is nie. Om diere dood te maak is ver van die ideaal af, maar partykeer is dit die enigste uitweg, mits dit op die beste moontlike manier gedoen word.

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